Then contact her again, in a positive manner. No weepy vibes. If you have the option, meet up with other women. And your friends.
So how do you do that without coming across as needy or too pushy? I wrote an article about this, check it out here:. In order to use this, you have to be able to say something about her picture, or about a recent meeting. Not only you are going to become unhappy that way, she will too. Message templates for WhatsApp or any other chat platform, if she ignores you but talks to everyone else.
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Pro tip: The only reason to message her is to get a date. Keep your stories, jokes, and life philosophy for the date. ArtistBboy opinions shared on Flirting topic. I'm following your intentions as "date" or "dump"..
That is that if she's not interested that you should move on. But it sounds to me like a common trend, in that women are "playful" yet not interested in dating aka they just want to have fun unless they find a mate they would die to be with. I don't think those are traits which aren't admirable and I'm encouraging you to take this friendship with her and learn something yourself.
Just because you aren't "with her" doesn't mean you won't have a good time. And as much as I hate jumping to conclusions, even in a worst case scenario you may learn something which could either benefit you, her, or both of you. Keep in mind that you DO need to work out whether its "friends", "nothing", or something worth fighting for.
You could tell yourself all the hype that she's playing hard to get; that she may have been preoccupied with something else, or that you simply love her too much to give up..
One second: Your my friend boyfriend , next second "i haven't met you before" strangers I would go nuts, and to be honest, I'm too old and tired of the chasing games. Which is exactly why I choose to keep them as friends.
Is this still revelant? She might have flirted with you to show her interest, then ignore you because she is waiting for you to flirt with her- almost testing you to see what you're going to do and if you're interested.
I do that sometimes with a guy to see if he is interested. I don't like throwing myself at guys so I will show a little interest and wait for them to do something so I know they like me too. She may just be shy. Perhaps she has met someone more interesting and prefers talking to them instead of you.
If she is seeking security in your relationship , and you deny her that, she might act distant so you could pull up your socks. She simply wants assurance of your feelings for her. Perhaps she has fallen out of love with you. She did like you at one point in time but does not feel the same for you anymore. Some women love to have men running after them.
They enjoy the chase and attention. She likes some drama in her life, and ignoring you gets her that. However, you can certainly do something about the situation and try to fix things between you. If you want her back, never make the mistake of chasing her or pestering her to talk to you. It makes you look needy and desperate, which will send her running in the opposite direction. Be calm and wait until she comes to you on her own. Her responses may have been few and curt lately, but the one time when her reply is elaborate and quick, do not jump the gun and send her long texts out of excitement.
Hold on and wait until things feel normal to start behaving like before. She could be contemplating her relationship with you or dealing with a temporary problem. Regardless, you should give her the time and space she needs to clear her head and talk to you like before. Her sudden behavior change might hurt you, and you might want to vent it out by being rude and hurtful to her.
This will cause irreparable damage, and you might regret it later. Instead, be more understanding of her so she can come back to you. In a desperate attempt to make things normal between you two, you might feel like apologizing to her even without knowing what you did wrong. Do not lose your self-respect to win over a woman.
No doubt, you must be extremely hurt by her behavior, but why sulk? If you happen to cross paths, act normal.
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